When you are at a low point, it is important to take a moment to look at what you are thinking and why.
For it is only when you pause to take a look at your thought processes that you can see how ludicrous some of them are.
It is funny how we can think certain things, yet not really know it. They sorta happen automatically, behind the scenes.
Such was the case for me. While I won’t go into details, but I will say that I am, starting at least, on an upward path.
I am learning more about myself, what I want, along with what I find acceptable.
There are always ways to improve myself and my life. I would also love to have my plans accelerated, but that will not happen anytime soon; I have come to accept this.
I seem to need to keep relearning the lesson of refocusing one’s mentality and outlook to a positive one. Let’s hope this time, this lesson sticks.
On another note, while I am not happy being single, I am content. I refuse to accept just anyone into my life, as I know what I am looking for and will accept no less.
This may sound arrogant, but it is just simply practical and, let’s face it, humane for all concerned.
After all, what is the point of getting involved (with anyone) just to leave them not long after, all because they were not what you were looking for in the first place.
I will be fair and saying that I do not exactly have a throng of women beating my door down, (not that I ever did).
This change, however, is within me, and once again, it is within my outlook and how I see the world, and women.
I am simply happy to be on this upward path, and look to climb ever higher as I continue towards my goals.
As always: Keep your head up, your attitude positive, and keep moving forward!